Real Communication: An Introduction

Intergroup communication

A branch of the discipline that focuses on how communication within and between groups affects relationships, find that these comparisons have a tremendous impact on communication

Salient

which group is brought to mind

Ethnocentrism

A belief in the superiority of your own culture or group and a tendency to view other cultures through the lens of your own

Discrimination

Behavior toward a person or group based solely on their membership in a particular group, class, or category-- when attitudes about superiority of one culture lead to rules and behaviors that favor that group and harm another group

Behavioral affirmation

Seeing or hearing what you want to see or hear in the communication of assorted group members

Behavioral confirmation

When we act in a way that makes our expectations about a group come true

Cognition (changing thinking)

our thinking changes when we increase our knowledge about cultures and co-cultures and develop more complex (rather than simplistic) ways of thinking about a culture

Affect (changing feelings)

Our feelings change when we experience greater enjoyment and less anxiety in our intercultural interactions, making us feel more comfortable and positive about intercultural exchanges

Changing behavior

When your thoughts and feelings are altered, behavioral changes occur as a result. Individuals develop better interpersonal relationships in work groups and perform their jobs better when they know what to say and not to say--do and do not-- acting with greater ease and effectiveness in accomplishing goals

Intercultural sensitivity

Mindfulness of behaviors that may offend others

Intergroup contact theory

holds that interaction between members of different social groups generates a possibility for more positive attitudes to emerge

Accommodation

To adapt and adjust you language and nonverbal behaviors

Convergence

Shifting language or nonverbal behaviors toward each other's way of communicating

Overaccommodate

Going too far in changing your language or changing ou language based on an incorrect or stereotypical notion of another group

Language

The system of symbols (words) that we use to think about and communicate experiences and feelings

Denotative meaning

A words basic, consistently accepted definition

Connotative meaning

The emotional or attitudinal response people have to the word

Cognitive language

The specific system of symbols that you use to describe people, things, and situations in your mind; it influences language and message production

Grammar

The system of rules of a language that serves as a mechanism for the creation of words, phrases, and sentences

Communication acquisition

Requires that we not only learn individual words in a language but also learn to use that language appropriately and effectively in the context of the situation

Informing

Using language to both give and receive information

Feeling

Primarily relational; we let people know how much we value (or don't value) them by the emotions we express

Imagining

The ability to think, play, and be creative in communication

Ritualizing

Involves learning the rules for managing conversations and relationships

Evasion

Avoiding to provide specific details

Equivocation

Using words that have unclear or misleading definitions

Euphemisms

inoffensive words or phrases that substitute for terms that might be perceived as upsetting

Slang

Language that is informal, nonstandard, and usually particular to a specific group

Jargon

Technical language that is specific to members of a given profession or interest group or people who share a hobby

Semantics

the relationship among symbols, objects, people, and concepts and refers to the meaning that woods have for people, either because of their definitions or because of their placement in a sentence's structure (syntax)

Pragmatics

The ability to use the symbol systems of a culture appropriately

Biased language

Language infused with more subtle meanings that influence our perceptions about a subject

Politically correct language

Replacing biased language with more neutral terms (ex. firefighter, police officer, and chairperson)

Profanity

Words or expressions considered insulting, rude, vulgar, or disrespectful

Civility

The social norm for appropriate behavior

Speech repertoires

A set of complex language behaviors or "files" of language of language possibilities

High language

A more formal, polite, or "mainstream" language

Low language

Informal language, used in more comfortable environments

Sapir-Whorf hypothesis

A claim that the words a culture uses (or doesn't use) influence thinking

Linguistic determinism

The idea that language influences how we see the world around us

Linguistic relativity

Speakers of different languages have different views of the world

Code switching and style switching

types of accommodation in which communicators change their regular language and slang, as well as their tonality, pitch, rhythm, and inflection, to fit into a particular group

Nonverbal communication

The process of intentionally or unintentionally signaling meaning through behavior other than words

Channel discrepancy

A situation in which one set of behaviors says one thing and another set says something different

Repeating

Mirrors the verbal message, offering a clear nonverbal cue that repeats the verbal message

Complementing

Nonverbal behavior that matches (without actually mirroring) the verbal message it accompanies

Accenting

Clarifying and emphasizing specific information in a verbal message

Substituting

Replacing words

Regulating

Coordinating verbal interaction

Immediacy

A feeling of closeness, involvement, and warmth between people as communicated by nonverbal behavior

Mimicry

The synchronized and usually unconscious pattern of imitating or matching gestures, body position, tone, and facial expressions to create social connections between people

Deception

The attempt to convince others of something that is false

Nonverbal codes

Symbols we use to send messages without, or in addition to, words

Emblems

Movements and gestures that have a direct verbal translation in a particular group or culture

Illustrators

Reinforce verbal messages and help visually explain what is being said

Regulators

Help us manage our interactions

Adaptors

Satisfy some physical or psychological need, such as rubbing your eyes when you're tired or twisting your hair when you're nervous or bored

Affect displays

Nonverbal behaviors that convey feelings, moods, and reactions

Oculesics

The study of the use of the eyes to communicate , and it covers the importance of the eyes in communication across the lifespan

Paralanguage

The vocalized sounds that accompany our words are nonverbal behaviors

Pitch

Involves variations in the voice that give prominence to certain words or syllables

Tone

A modulation of the voice, usually expressing a particular feeling or mood

Communication is...

The process by which individuals use symbols, signs, and behaviors to exchange information.

Communication is considered what?

The process through which the social fabric of relationships, groups, organizations, societies and world order-and disorder- is created and maintained

Functional perspective

Examines how communication behaviors work (or don't work) to accomplish our goals in personal, group, organizational, or public situations

Relationships

The interconnections, or interdependence, between two or more people that function to achieve some goal

Relationships involve what?

Interdependence

Interdependence

What we do affects others and what others do affects us

Affiliation

The affect, or feelings, you have for others

Goal achievement

Relying on communication in order to accomplish particular objectives

Control

The ability of one person, group, or organization to influence others, and the manner in which their relationships are conducted

Symbols

Arbitrary constructions (usually in the form of language or behaviors) that refer to people, things, and concepts

Code

A set of symbols that are joined to create a meaningful message

Encoding

The process of mentally construction a message for production

Decoding

The process of receiving a message by interpreting and assigning meaning to it

Culture refers to what?

The shared beliefs, values, and practices of a group of people

Co-Cultures are what?

Smaller groups of people within a culture who are distinguished by features such as race, religion, age, generation, political affiliation, gender, sexual orientation, economic status, educational level, occupation, ands a host of other factors.

Communication need not be intentional

Can be spontaneous

A channel is...

The method through which communication occurs

Communication is a Transactional process

It involves two or more people acting in both sender and receiver roles, and their messages are dependent on and influenced by those of their partner (that is, their messages are interdependent)

Competent communication

Communication that is effective and appropriate for a given situation, in which the communicators evaluate and reassess their own communication process

Outcome

The product of an interchange

Process

Measures the success of communication by considering the methods by which an outcome is accomplished

Ethics

The study of morals, specifically the moral choices individuals make in their relationships with others

Behavioral Flexibility

The ability to have a number of behaviors at your disposal and your willingness to use different communication behaviors in different situations

Communication skills

Behavioral routines based on social understandings

Linear model

A sender originates communication, with words or action: those words or actions constitute the message. The message must be carried through a specific channel. Along the way, some interference, called noise, occurs, so that the message arrives (changed in some way from the original) at its target, the receiver

Interaction model

Exhibits communication between sender and receiver that incorporates feedback

Feedback

A message from the receiver to the sender that illustrates responses that occur when two or more people communicate (can be verbal, nonverbal, or both)

Competent communication model

is transactional: the individuals (or groups of organizations) communicate simultaneously, sending and receiving messages (both verbal and nonverbal) at the same moment in time, within a relational context, a situational context, and a cultural context

Cognitions

The thoughts that individuals have about themselves and others, including their understanding and awareness of who they are (smart, funny, compassionate, and so on), how well they like who they are, and how successful they think they are.

Behavior

Observable communication, including both verbal messages (the words you use) and nonverbal messages (your facial expressions, body movements, clothing, and gestures)

Basic communication process

All communication involves the basic processes of perception, intercultural interaction, verbal communication, nonverbal communication, and listening

Interpersonal communication

The study of communication between dyads, or pairs of individuals

Perception

Cognitive process through which we interpret our experiences and come to our own unique understandings

Communication processing

The means by which you gather, organize, and evaluate the information ou receive

Schemas

Mental structures that put together related bits of information (help understand how things work or anticipate how they should proceed)

Mindfulness

Being focused on the task at hand

Mindlessness

Processing information passively

Selective perception

Succumbing to the biased nature of perception

Undue influence

occurs when you give greater credulity or importance to something shown or said than should be the case

Attributions

Personal characteristics that are used to explain behavior

Fundamental attribution error

Explains our tendency to overemphasize the internal and underestimate the external causes of behaviors we observe in others

Self-serving bias

Usually attribute our own successes o internal factors, while we explain our failures by attributing them to situational or external effects

Interaction appearance theory

helps explain how people change their attributions of someone, particularly their physical attractiveness, the more they interact

Cultural Myopia

A form of nearsightedness grounded in the belief that one's own culture is appropriate and relevant in all situations and to all people

Stereotyping

The act of fitting individuals into an existing schema without adjusting the schema appropriately; involves organizing information about groups of people into categories so that you can generalize about their attitudes, behaviors, skills, morals, and habits

Prejudice

A deep-seated feeling of unkindness and ill will toward particular groups, usually based on negative stereotypes and feelings of superiority over those groups

Self-concept

Your awareness and understanding of who you are-as interpreted and influenced by your thoughts, actions, abilities, values, goals, and ideals

Social comparison theory

Comparing ourselves to others as we develop our ideas about ourselves

Self-esteem

How you feel about yourself, usually in a particular situation. Essentially a set of attitudes that people hold about their own emotions, thoughts, abilities, skills, behavior, and beliefs that fluctuate according to the situation or context

Self-efficacy

The ability to predict actual success from self-concept and self-esteem

Self-fulfilling prophecy

A prediction that causes an individual to alter his or her behavior in a way that makes the prediction more likely to occur

Self-actualization

The feelings and thoughts you get when you know that you have negotiated a communication situation as well as you possibly could

Self-adequacy

when you assess your communication competence as sufficient or acceptable; less positive than self-actualization

Self-denigration

Criticizing or attacking yourself

Self-presentation

Intentional communication designed to show elements of self for strategic purposes

Self-monitoring

Your ability to watch your environment and others in it for cues as to how to present yourself in a particular situation

Self-disclosure

When you reveal yourself to others by sharing information about ourself

Culture

A learned system of thought and behavior that belongs to and typifies a relatively large group of people

Worldview

The framework through which you interpret the world and the people in it

Intercultural communication

The communication between people from different coutures who have different world views

High-context cultures

Use contextually cues-- such as time place, relationship, and situation-- to both interpret meaning and send subtle messages (ex. Japan, Korea, China, and many Latin American and African countries)

Low-context culture

Uses very direct language and relies less on situational factors to communicate (ex. The U.S., Canada, and most northern European countries)

Collectivist cultures

perceive themselves first and foremost as members of a group--and they communicate from that perspective (ex. many Arab and Latin American cultures as well as several Asian cultures such as China and Japan)

Individualist cultures

Value individuality; they place value on autonomy and privacy, with relatively little attention to status and hierarchy based on age or family connections (ex. U.S. highly, Great Britain, Australia, and Germany

Uncertainty avoidance

Cultures that adapt their behaviors in order to reduce uncertainty and risk

High uncertainty avoidance cultures

Behaviors are adapted to minimize risk and uncertainty; Cultures that are more anxious about the unknown(ex. Portugal, Greece, Peru, and Japan)

Low uncertainty avoidance cultures

Cultures with a higher tolerance for risk and ambiguity (ex. Sweden, Denmark, Ireland, and the U.S.)

Masculine Culture (achievement culture)

places value on assertiveness, achievement, ambition, and competitiveness

Feminine Culture (Nurturing culture)

Place value on relationships and quality of life

Power distance

The way in which a culture accepts and expects the division of power among individuals

Time orientation

The way that cultures communicate about and with time (ex. U.S., Great Britain)

Monochronic cultures

Treat time as a limited resource-- a commodity that can be saved or wasted

Polychronic cultures

Comfortable dealing with multiple people and tasks at the same time

Understatement

Language that downplays the emotional intensity or importance of events

Generation

A group of people who were born into a specific time frame, along with its events and social changes that shape attitudes and behavior

Gender

refers to the behavioral and cultural traits assigned to our sex; determined by the way members of a particular culture define notions of masculinity and femininity

Social identity theory

you have a personal identity, which is your sense of your unique individual personality, and you have a social identity, the part of your self-concept that comes from your group memberships

Ingroups

The groups with which we identify and to which we feel we belong

Outgroups

Those we define as "others

Volume

How loud or soft the voice is

Vocalizations

Paralinguistic cues that give information about our emotional or physical state, such as laughing, crying, sighing, yawning, or moaning

Back-channel cues

signal when we want to talk versus when we are just encouraging others to continue their talking

Artifacts

Accessories carried or used on the body for decoration or identification

Proxemics

The study of the way we use and communicate with space

Territoriality

The claiming of an area, with or without legal basis, through continuous occupation of that area

Haptics

The study of touch

Chronemics

The study of how people perceive the use of time and how they structure time in their relationships

Contact cultures

Depend on touch as an important form of communication

Noncontact cultures

Touch sensitive or even tend to avoid touch

Public-private dimension

The physical space that affects our nonverbal communication

Informal-formal dimension

More psychological, dealing with our perceptions of personal versus impersonal situations

communication

the process by which individuals use symbols, signs, and behaviors to exchange information

functional perspective

communication exists to accomplish our goals in personal, group, organizational, or public situations.

relationships

interconnections or interdependence between two or more people that function to achieve some goal

interdependence

what we do affects others and what others do affect us

affiliation

the feeling of connection you have with some one expressed through liking, love, or respect or alternatively dislike, hatred, or disrespect

control

the ability of one person, group, or organization to influence others, and the manner in which their relationships are conducted

expressing affiliation, achieving goals, or influencing others

three primary functions of communication

six characteristics of communication

extent to which: the message is symbolic, the code is shared, the message is culturally bound, intentionality of the sender, a channel is present, and the process of encoding and decoding messages is transactional

symbols

arbitrary constructions usually in the form of language or behaviors that refer to people, things, and concepts

code

a set of symbols that are joined to create a meaningful message

encoding

mentally constructing a message for production

decoding

process of receiving a message by interpreting and assigning meaning to it

culture

shared beliefs, values, and practices of a group of people

co-culture

smaller groups of people within a culture who are distinguished by certain factors

spontaneous communication

involuntary actions that give off information unintentionally such as blushing

channel

method through which communication occurs

transactional

involves two or more people acting in both sender and receiver roles

competent

description of communication that is effective and appropriate for a given situation in which the communicators evaluate and reassess their own communication process

outcome

product of an interchange

process

methods by which an outcome is accomplished

ethics

study of moral choices individuals make in their relationships

behavioral flexibility

ability to have a number of behaviors at your disposal and your willingness to use different communication behaviors in different situations

appropriate

meets the demands of the situation as well as the expectations of one's specific communication partner and any other people present

effective

helps to meet your goals

communication skills

behavioral routines based on social understandings used by communicators to achieve particular goals

linear model

sender originates communication through words or actions constituting a message that is carried through a channel to arrive to the receiver after going through interference called noise

interaction model

communication between sender and receiver that incorporates feedback (communicators "take turns" sending messages in this model)

feedback

message from receiver to sender that illustrates responses that occur when two or more people communicate

competent model

individuals communicate simultaneously verbally and non verbally within a relational, situational, and cultural context

cognitions

the thoughts that individuals have about themselves and others including their understanding and awareness of who they are that influence the communicator during communication

behavior

observable communication both verbal and non verbal influenced by cognition

relational context

context that includes the relational history: the sum of the shared experiences of the individuals involved in the relationship

situational context

all aspects of the environment including physical and social aspects

cultural context

backdrop of the competent communication model, influence of surrounding culture or culture of communicators

communication

_____ is the process by which individuals use symbols and behaviors to exchange information

Functional

_____ perspective on communication examines how communication behavior work (or don't work) to accomplish out goals in personal, group, organizational, or public situations

The actions of each partner affect the other

The best definition of interdependence is

Affiliation

While on a first date, you notice your date leaning toward you, meeting your gaze, smiling when you make eye contact, and laughing at your jokes�you infer from your date's behavior that s/he likes you. This scenario best represents the use of communication to express

control

The ability of one person, group, or organization to influence others, and the manner in which their relationships are conducted is called

symbol

The word "dog" is a ____________, which arbitrarily refers to the canine companion that sleeps at the foot of your bed.

encoding

After looking in your book bag and realizing you forgot to grab a pen, you lean over to one of your classmates and you say, "Do you have a pen I can barrow for class today?" You have just engaged in what mental process as you constructed your message?

culture

The shared beliefs, values, and practices of a group of people is their

decoding

The process of receiving a message by interpreting and assigning meaning is referred to as

co-culture

The Amish, African Americans, Catholics and Goths are all groups we might refer to as members of a/an

translation

That communication involves two or more people acting in both sender and receiver roles, and that their messages are dependent on and influenced by those of their partner, means that communication is

Ethics

___________ refers to the study of morals, specifically the moral choices individuals make in their relationships with others

linear model (of comm)

In which model of communication do we see a sender who originates a message, and sends it through a channel to a receiver, without any kind of feedback taken into consideration?

feedback

In the interaction model of communication, we refer to the receiver's response as

cognitions

__________ are the thoughts a communicator has about himself or herself and others.

TRUE

We sometimes express emotions to help fulfill our practical needs. True or False?

FALSE

While communication is helpful, we do not need to be able to communicate to get the things we want and need in life. True or False?

FALSE

Humans are able to communicate without the use of symbols. True or False?

TRUE

The meanings of symbols are arbitrary and are negotiated between people. True or False?

TRUE

An individual's ethics are influenced by his or her personal morals and values as well as by broader cultural notions of what is right or wrong morally. True or False?

communication processing

the means by which we gather, organize, and evaluate the information we receive

schemas

People sometimes feel uncertain in new situations where they do not know what to expect. This uncertainty develops because the person does not have a(n) __________ to guide his or her perception of the new event.

selective perception

Edgar, who is a communication major, finds himself frustrated by the number of times his professors say "umm," mispronounce words and use awkward gestures�so much so that he often misses the point of their lectures. Edgar's perceptions are best attributed to __________.

undue influence

Brianna is planning a vacation, and even though she really wants to go someplace quiet and relaxing, she has settled on a trip to Miami because her older sister told her she should go someplace with a great night life. In this scenario, Brianna's sister has an ___________ on Brianna's perception.

interaction appearance theory

Which theory helps explain how people change their attributions of someone's physical appearance as they communicate with them more?

fundamental attribute error

When Joe shows up late to meet his friends for dinner, he explains that he is late because he was held up in traffic. His friend Maggie reminds him, though, that they all drove in the same traffic, but that everyone else left early to accommodate the rush hour. The differences in their perception is best associated with _________________.

improve perceptions

verify your perceptions, be thoughtful when you seek explanations and look beyond first impressions to _______

cultural myopia

Failing to consider other cultural perspectives because of a belief that one's own culture is appropriate and relevant in all situations and to all people is associated with what term?

stereotyping

Fitting our perceptions of individuals into our existing schemas without adjusting the schema adequately is referred to as ___________________.

stereotypes

Politicians life," and "young people are lazy" are both examples of _____________.

social comparison theory

Our tendency to internalize our admiration for film and TV stars, models, famous athletes, and political figures by comparing what we like about them to our own self-conception is addressed by which theory?

self fulfilling prophecy

Because she believes she is not good at public speaking, Deanna puts off choosing and researching her topic, and doesn't have adequate time to prepare and practice for her presentation. Ultimately, she earns a failing grade on her speech, and walks away with her perception confirmed: she is just not a good speaker. Unfortunately, Deanna's ________ set her up for failure.

Self actualization

When you feel as though you have negotiated a communication situation as well as you possibly could do, you experience _______________.

self disclosure

The act of voluntarily revealing information that is not easily known about ourselves, to others, is called __________________.

TRUE

Men don't like to show their emotions" is an example of a stereotype. True or False?

TRUE

Social Comparison Theory helps to explain how media images may contribute to body image problems and eating disorders. True or False?

FALSE

Self-esteem refers only to the positive feelings one has about oneself. True or False?

TRUE

A self-fulfilling prophecy can set us up for success in a particular situation. True or False

culture

A learned system of thought and behavior that belongs to and typifies a relatively large group of people, including shared beliefs, values, and practices" represents which term from chapter three?

intercultural comm

___________ is the communication people from different cultures who have different worldviews.

collectivist cultures

People from which type of culture perceive themselves first and foremost as members of group?

uncertainty avoidance

______________ is the degree to which a culture adapts its behaviors in order to reduce ambiguity and risk.

power distance

Liz prefers working on her own rather than in groups, but will tolerate group work if each member's role or job is clearly defined, each person is responsible for his or her own work, and each person will be held accountable by their supervisor for the quality of the work they do in the group. Liz's perspective seems to reflect which cultural perspective?

monochronic cultures

Jim's dad always tells him things like "The early bird gets the worm," and "We're burning daylight" in order to remind him that time is finite and that he should get up early in the morning if he wants to be successful in life. Jim's dad is instilling which time orientation?

gender

The behavioral and cultural traits assigned to men and women, and the way a particular culture defines notions of masculinity and femininity, is referred to as ________________.

social identity theory

The theory that holds that we each have a sense of ourselves as a unique individual but also define ourselves based on our membership in groups is called ____________.

ingroup, outgroup

Andrew met his roommate Danny when they both joined the Independent Filmmakers Club as freshmen, and they have a large group of mutual friends through that group. More recently, Danny has joined a fraternity and has been inviting Andrew to join him at the frat's parties and other events. Andrew has accepted a few invitations, but feel awkward at the fraternity events because he does not identify with the other people who attend. We would describe the filmmakers' club as Andrew's ______________ and the fraternity as a(n) ______________.

ethnocentrism

___________ is the belief that one's own culture is superior to others', and the tendency to view other cultures through the lens of one's own.

behavior affirmation

Alan believes that school administrators are overly critical and controlling. Consequently, when the Dean of Students asks to meet with him to discuss what she can do to help him succeed in his classes, he assumes her goal is to coerce him into dropping out of his classes. We might describe Alan's perception as ________________________.

intergroup contact theory

___________ theory suggests that if you interact with people from backgrounds different from your own you will come to understand others better.

True (can be)

Culture is synonymous with ethnicity or nationality. True or False?

TRUE

Collectivist cultures tend to be governed by a clear sense of status and hierarchy, and tend to prize loyalty. True or False?

Fasle

The United States and Canada would be classified as high uncertainty avoidance cultures. True or False?

Fasle

An individual in a low power distance culture is less likely to feel anxiety when talking to someone of higher status than an individual from a high power distance culture would. True or False?

FALSE

Gender and biological sex are basically the same thing. True or False?

FALSE

People within a co-cultural group tend to have the same values, beliefs, attitudes, and behaviors. True or False?

TRUE

Stereotypical beliefs about and attitudes toward others may lead us to interact with them in such a way that we set them up to prove our perceptions true. True or False?

denotative meaning

The consistently accepted definition of a word is referred to as its:

connotative meaning

When Joes's roommate asks if Joe would bring his cat home after the winter holidays, Joe remembers how his aunt's house smelled like a soiled litter box and that there was cat hair all over the furniture. Joe feels a great sense of reluctance. His response is related to what kind of meaning for cat?

feelings

Andy compliments his mother's new hairstyle just before he asks her if she can loan him some money for the weekend, hoping that this will put her in a good mood and improve his chances of getting the loan. His compliment is serving which functional communication competency?

equivocation

Using abstract words that have unclear or misleading definitions to get out of an uncomfortable situation is referred to as:

jargon

Technical language that is specific to members of a particular profession, interest group, or hobby is referred to as:

semantics

The relationship between symbols, objects, people, and concepts and the meaning that words have for people, either because of their definitions or placement in a sentence, defines which of the following terms?

biased language

When Ashley confides in her friend that she thinks her boyfriend might be cheating, her friend says, "Girl, he is a dog!" What language form did Ashley's friend use?

code (style) switching

What term refers to a form of accommodation in which a communicator changes his or her regular language and slang to fit into a particular group?

linguistic determinism

The theory that holds that speakers of different languages have different views of the world is:

language

_____ is a system of symbols, governed by grammatical rules that we use to think about and communicate experiences and feelings.

phonological rules

Grammatical rules that dictate how words should be pronounced are referred to as:

civility

Jane says her cousin is "big boned" instead of saying she's overweight, obese, or fat, because she understands those other terms might have insulting connotations. What type of language abstraction is Jane using?

TRUE

There is a nonverbal component to every verbal message. True or False?

TRUE

Every word has both denotative and connotative meaning. True or False?

FALSE

When Sam's professor says he will have to give a presentation in class, Joe feels his heart start to race and his palms feel sweaty. Joe probably reacts this way because his denotative meaning for the word "presentation" is unpleasant. True or False?

FALSE

Jargon is an informal form or language that is known to most people is a particular culture at a particular time. True or False?

FALSE

On the abstraction ladder discussed in the text, the word "fork" would be more abstract that the word "utensil." True or False?

TRUE

When comparing men and women of equal status, men tend to interrupt more often than women do. True or False?

TRUE

Speakers who use qualifiers, hedges, and disclaimers are usually perceived to be uncertain or hesitant, and therefore less powerful. True or False?

TRUE

Competent communication through technological media like email requires communicators to use more clear language than is usually required in face-to-face communication, in order to make up for the nonverbal cues that are missing. True or False?

gesture, smile, frown

Which of the following is an example of nonverbal behavior?

channel discrepancy

______ occurs when one set of a person's behaviors say one thing and another set of his or her behaviors says something different.

contradicting

Which of the following does not represent the way nonverbal behaviors can clarify the meaning of a verbal message by reinforcing it?

repeating

Your friend asks you how you're doing, and you say, "OK," while holding up your hand in the gesture Americans understand to be the OK sign. What reinforcing behavior are you using to clarify your message?

substituting

You see a friend across the room at a crowded party, but it's too loud for you to say hello from this distance. Instead, you make eye contact with him and nod your head as an acknowledgment and greeting. Which term best fits the function of your nonverbal behavior?

kinesics (nonverbal)

What is commonly referred to as "body language" is actually the observation of _______, or the way our body movements and gestures send messages.

emblem

During a church service, you silently hold your index finger up to your mouth to communicate nonverbally to your little brother that he must be quiet. What category of body movement are you using to communicate your message?

paralanguage

Elements like pitch, volume, rate, and other vocal qualities are called:

adaptor

While delivering your presentation, you begin to twist the ring on your right hand your right leg begins to shake. What category of body movement is illustrated in this example?

oculesics

Audiences prefer speakers who use eye contact behaviors that scan the audience, making each member or section of the audience feel like the speaker has addressed them specifically. This indicates the power of ______, or the use of the eyes in communication settings.

haptics

You're babysitting your niece. When the toddler wakes up, she cries out, missing her mom and dad. You rush upstairs, pick up the child, and hold her in your lap until she calms down and falls back to sleep. What type of nonverbal communication are you using to communicate your caring toward your niece?

public-private

Public displays of affection are sometimes upsetting to others because of a different in various communicators' perceptions of the _______ dimension of communication.

False (?)

Because nonverbal communication is more natural and spontaneous than verbal communication is, it is more easily understood. True or False?

FALSE

When a person's nonverbal behavior contradicts his or her verbal communication, we tend to believe the verbal message because it is more intentional. True or False?

TRUE

Vocal elements like pitch, rate, and volume are elements of nonverbal communication. True or False?

(?) Social-Polite

A polite handshake between colleagues would be defined as functional-professional touch. True or False?

artifacts

accessories, tattoos, jewelry, nail polish

TRUE

Personal space requirements change according to the situational, relational, and cultural context of the communication. True or False?

TRUE

Women tend to smile more and show greater sensitivity to others' nonverbal behavior than men do. True or False?

demographics

The systematic study of the quantifiable characteristics of a large group" defines which of the following terms?

specific purpose statement

To have audience members realized the importance of reading with local elementary school children so that they sign up for a volunteer reading program such as Everybody Wins

Thesis

A statement that conveys the central idea or core assumption about your topic is a _____ statement.

Thesis statement

EX: Volunteers who read with local elementary school children through programs such as Everybody Wins improve young lives by enhancing children's self-esteem and expanding their possibilities for academic success.

Plagiarism

________ is defined as "the crime of fraudulently presenting someone else's words, ideas, or intellectual property as your own�intentionally or unintentionally.

trustworthiness, respectful, responsible, fair

According to the textbook, ethical speaking is usually characterized by all of the following principles.

fair

Presenting an audience with opposing views so that they are able to make an informed decision is most closely related to which principle of ethical speaking?

TRUE

Public speaking is consistently identified as one of the most important skills needed for professional success. True or False?

TRUE

Anecdotes are especially useful when a speaker wants to personalize a speech and make it more memorable to the audience. True or False?

main points

_________ are the central claims that support a speaker's specific purpose and thesis statement.

topical (?)

Brad is organizing his speech on the process of rebuilding a transmission. What organizational pattern would best suit his needs for this speech?

Transitions

Words and phrases that connect different thoughts, points, and details in a way that allows them to flow naturally from one to the next" is most closely associated with which of the following terms?

signposts

First," "Additionally," "and "Moving on" are all examples of what your textbook authors call:

preparation

Speakers usually use a/an ______ outline as a rough draft they revisit and revise continually throughout the preparation of their speeches.

FALSE

Every speech should have three main points. True or False?

FALSE

Research suggests that audiences usually remember the middle points of a speech better than the first and last points. True or False?

TRUE

Sentence outlines that are written out word-for-word, exactly the way the speaker plans to give the speech, don't make good speaking outlines for most speakers. True or false?

FALSE

Including jargon and other technical language the audience doesn't understand in a speech is an effective way of building credibility on the subject and usually inspires an audience to want to learn more about the subject. True or False?

Communication

is the process by which individuals use symbols, sign, and behaviors to exchange information

Functional Perspective

of communication, which examines how we use communication to help us begin, maintain, and end relationships.

Relationships

are the interconnnections, or interdependence, between 2 or more people that function to achieve some goal.

Interdependence

meaning that what we do affects others and what others do affect us.

Affiliation

is the affect, or feelings, we have for others.

Goal achievement

Rely on communication in order to accomplish particular objective.

Symbols

arbitrary constructions (usually in the form of language or behaviors) that refer to people, things and concepts.

Code

a set of symbols that are joined to create a meaningful message.

Encoding

is the process of mentally constructing a message for production

Decoding

is the process of receiving a message by interpreting and assigning meaning to it.

Culture

refers to the shared beliefs, values, and practices of a group of people.

Co-cultures

are smaller groups of people within a culture who are distinguished by features such as race, religion, age, generation, political affiliation, gender, sexual orientation, economic status, education level, occupation and a host of other factors.

Channel

is simply the method through which communication occurs.

Transactional

it involves two or more people acting in both sender and receiver roles and the messages are dependent on and influenced by those of their partner.

Competent

to describe communication that is effective and appropriate for a given situation.

Outcome

(who wins and who loses)

Process

which measures the success of communication by considering the methods by which an outcome is accomplished.

Ethics

is the study of morals, specifically the moral choices individuals make in their relationships with order.

Linear model

a sender originates the message, which carried through a channel - perhaps interfered with by noise - to the receiver

Interaction model

exhibits communication between sender and receiver that incorporates feedback.

Competent communication model

is transactional: the individuals (or groups or organizations) communicate simultaneously, sending and receiving messages (both verbal and nonverbal) at the same moment in time, w/in a relational context, a situational context, and a cultural context.

Relational context

in which the communication takes place. (ex. a kiss, depending on the context. Kissing ur mother is totally diff frm kissing your romantic partners.)

Situational context

in which the communication occurs. The surrounding influences communication.

Cultural context

that frames the interaction. How members view themselves as a specific culture influences communication choices.

Cognitions

the thoughts that individuals have about themselves and others including their understanding and awareness of who they are, how well they like who they are, and how successful they think they are.

Behavior

is observable communication, including both verbal messages and nonverbal messages.

communication

The process by which individuals use symbols signs and behaviors to exchange information

Functions of Communication

Functional perspective examines how communication works or don't work to accomplish goals. Relationships, Interdependence, Affiliation, Goals Achievement, Control.

Relationships

One of the functions of communication. Interconnections between two or more people to achieve some goal.

Interdependence

One of the functions of communication. What we do affects others and what others do affects us. A communication relationship is based on communication.

Affiliation

Function of communication Showing you have feelings for others. You show how much you want to be connected with someone by respecting them liking them, loving them.

Goals Achievement

Function of communication. Relying on communication to accomplish particular objectives. Focuses on getting the task DONE.

Competent Communication Model

A transactional model incorporating 3 contextual spheres in which individuals communicate. Communicators, Relational Context, Situational Context, Cultural Context.

Communicators

part of competent communication model. the people communicating.

relational context

part of competent communication model. in which communication takes place.

situational context

part of competent communication model. situation in which communication takes place.

cultural context

part of competent communication model. culture that frames the interaction.

Encoding

Process of mentally constructing the message that one wants to send.

Decoding

the process of receiving the message by interpreting and assigning meaning to it.

Communicator Cognition

thoughts communicators have about themselves Understanding and awareness of who they are.

Schemas

are mental structures we use to connect bits of information together. help you understand how things work. Ex: if someone says "hey what's up" an existing schema tells you you'll say hello, small talk then go your separate ways.

Perceptual Barriers

Perceptual challenges that can give rise to potential barriers to competent communication. Ex are narrow perspectives and Stereotyping.

Narrow Perspective

example is cultural myopia: when we are so caught up in our own environment we don't put ourselves in the place of different people in different environments.

Stereotyping

A perceptual barrier. The act of fitting individuals into an existing schema without adjusting the schema appropriately. Generalizing attitudes, behaviors, skills, habits etc.

Prejudice

A deep seated feeling of unkindness and ill will towards particular groups usually based on negative stereotypes and feelings of superiority over those groups.

Social Comparison Theory

We compare ourselves against idealized images in the media often to our own disadvantage. How we compare ourselves to others.

Self Presentation

intentional communication designed to show elements of self for strategic purposes; it's how we let others know about ourselves. EX: If you want to let your friends know you're a successful editor you mention famous popular authors you've worked with.

Self-disclosure

Sharing important information about ourselves to friends. EX: telling a friend you're broke

Undue Influence

a challenge presented by a schema. when you give greater credibility to something than you should. ex: jurors in a case influence their decision on media coverage.

recommendations for improving perception

verify your perception. don't jump to conclusions. Be thoughtful when you seek explanations: don't base your thought on assumptions. Look beyond first impressions: don't rely completely on very first impression

Culture

a learned system of thought and behavior that reflects a groups shared beliefs and values and practices.

Ingroups

a part of intergroup communication. an ingroup is a group with which we identify and to which we feel we belong.

outgroup

the others" people we don't identify with.

Social Identity Theory

personal identity: which is your sense of your unique individual personality. and social identity: that part of your self-concept that comes from your group memberships. shifts depending on which group membership is most imoirtant at a given moment.

Collectivist Cultures

cultures in which the self is regarded as embedded in relationships, and harmony with one's group is prized above individual goals and wishes

individualist cultures

cultures in which the self is regarded as autonomous, and individual goals and wishes are prized above duty and relations with others

high context culture

Cultures in which messages are indirect, general and ambiguous Ex: chinese man might disagree with someone but won't say it directly partner has to look for CLUES

low context culture

a culture in which people are expected to be direct and to say what they mean. AMERICA

intergroup contact theory

a prominent idea. it holds that interaction between members of different social groups generate a possibility for more positive attitudes to emerge. if you have contact with people who are different from you you realize that the expectations you have about them might be incorrect.

denotative meaning

the literal or dictionary meaning of a word or phrase. school: a building where education takes place

connotative meaning

the meaning suggested by the associations or emotions triggered by a word or phrase. School: memories of recess

abstract language

Language describing ideas and qualities rather than observable or specific things, people, or places. Abstraction ladder :FROM ABSTRACT TO SPECIFIC

You're useless

...

You never help out around the house.

...

you keep forgetting to do your chores

...

the trash wasn't emptied last night and it's your job to do that.

...

i noticed you didn't take out the trash in teh kitche, the bathroom, or the bedroom. you agreed that taking out the trash every monday and thursday evening would be your job."`

...

High language

formal polite mainstream language. business context, interviews school etc

low language

often involving slang informal easy going friends

code/style switching

Changing from one mode of speech to another as the situation demands, whether from one language to another or from one dialect of a language to another.

relational context

ex: we don't speak to our mother the same way we speak to our friends, grandmother, boss etc. it all depends on the relationship you have with them

situational context

it all depends on the situation you're in. we don't talk at work the same way we would talk at a bar, or at a sports game. tone, slang, all changes depending on the situation

cultural context

depends on the culture. hilary clinton gave russian minister a button to "reset" as a gift but said wrong word russian minster could have taken it differently because it's a different word in his culture.

sapir worf hypothesis

claim that the words a culture uses or don't use influence thinking. if a culture doesn't have a word for something they probably don't even consider the concept a lot.

channel discrepancy

words and actions don't match, the nonverbal communication is more likely to be believed than the verbal communication

nonverbal communication codes

symbols we use to send messages without or in addition to words

emblems

movements gestures that have a direct verbal translation in a particular group or culture. obama made a pinkie and thum salute to hawaiian marching band called a "shaka" which is a greeting in traditional hawaiian culture.

illustrators

reinforce verbal messages and help visually explain what is being said. holding hands to feet apart saying "it was THIS big" is an illustrator

regulators

help us manage our interactions. rainsing hand and lifting head indicates you want to speak.

adaptors

satisfy some physical or psychological need, such as rubbing your eyes when you're tired, twisting hair when nervous or bored. adaptors are not conscious behaviors, usually to reduce body tension

affect displays

nonverbal behaviors that convey feelings moods and reaction. often unintentional, reflecting the sender's emotions: slumping in a chair may indicate fatigue or boredom.

territoriality

the claiming of an area with or without legal basis. ex: you always sit in the same seat in class even if they're not assigned

contact cultures

more likely to communicate through touch. example: woman engage in more eye contact than men, initiate touch more often and smile more to communicate.

noncontact cultures

touch sensitive or tend to avoid touch.

the listening process

skills that we develop and improve when listening to someone

Selecting

step 1 of the listening process. involuntary: we cannot choose what we hear. when you are faced with competing stimuli--say the sound of the television in the room, your roomate, the dishwasher, you need to choose one sound over the others.

Attending

Step 2 of the listening process: being willing to focus attention on both the presences and communication of someone else. if you select Brett's voice the next step is to attend actively to his words and message.

understanding

Step 3 of the listening process: interpreting and making sense of message. while talking about his midterm brett mentions the disagreement he had with his professor over the wording of an essay question. he says words like "aggregate supply" or "reciprocal demand" you've never studied economics so don't really understand. you might have to ask brett questions so you can clearly understand.

remembering

step 4 of the listening process: recalling information that contributes to perceptions. if you don't remember what happened in your conversation with brett he might be annoyed when he's telling you how the dilemma turned out.

responding

Step 5 of listening process: involves generating some kind of feedback or reaction that lets others know that you have received and understood their message.

listening preferences

distinct styles that emerge when it comes to listening.

People oriented listeners

A listening preference: listen with relationships in mind; non judgmental; concerned with feelings; good at assessing moods

Action oriented listeners

A listening preference: focus on tasks. organize information they hear into concise and relevant themes. tend to keep the discourse on track so are often valuable in meetings and members of teams and organization.

content-oriented listeners

A listening preference: in which a person is critical of what he hears, and he enjoys listening to complex, challenging information from knowledgeable people

Time-Oriented Listeners

most concerned with efficiency. they prefer information that is clear and to the point and have little patience for speakers who talk too much or wander off topic.

listening barriers

factors that interfere with out ability to comprehend information and respond appropriately.

environmental factors

a listening barrier: loud noise such as the noise we experience in sporting events or when working with heavy equipment. it can also be difficult to listen depending on your environment. your tv is on you could have a view of the beach etc.

hearing and processing challenges

a listening barrier: the ability to hear declines with age, hearing loss.

multitasking

a listening barrier where you are attending to several things at once. we may truly believe that we are giving a fair amount of attention to each task but it complicates everything. our efficiency decreases

boredom and overexcitment

when something or someone seems dull we can wind up daydreaming. 2nd part may distract us. if you're consumed by plans for a weekend or how you will study for two midterms it can be difficult to listen to competing messages.

Defensive listening

An unethical listening behavior: responding with aggression and arguing with the speaker without fully listening to the message.

Selective Listening

An unethical listening behavior: when you zero in bits of information that interest you disregarding the other messages or parts of messages. mostly common when defensive or insecure. if you really dislike someone you might only listen to negative things they say.

Selfish listening

An unethical listening behavior: listening for your own needs. lucia may seem really engaged in your discussion about some negative interaction you've had with ryan however it's possible she's only listening to get a sense of weakness in your relationship because SHE'S interested in ryan.

monopolistic listening

an unethical behavior part of selfish listening: listening in order to control the communication interaction. when you listen to someone only to plot your own response in order to get YOUR way.

hurtful listening

an unethical listening behavior: ambushing or attacking someone when responding. they find weaknesses in others things they're sensitive about and pull it out. insensitive listening can occur when we fail to pay attention to the emotional content of someone's message.

pseudolistening

an unethical listening behavior: when you become impatient or bored with someone's communication messages. pretending to listen saying "uh-huh" when you're not paying attention at all.

Companionship

A function of relationships: we all long for inclusion to involve others in our lives and be involved in others lives.

stimulation

a function of relationships: we seek diversions. watching tv or listening to music. but interaction with another person provides a unique kind because it occurs on a personal level. checking up on old highschool buddies on fb, meeting with significant other and hug.

achieving goals

a function of relationship: satisfying the needs like loneliness or providing stimulation. or more practical if you have dreamed about working in finance you will seek people that have worked in finance.

EROS

a type of lover: beauty and sexuality. sex is the most important aspect of erotic love. intense emotionally and physically.

LUDUS

a type of love for entertainment and excitement. views love as a game. does not require great commitment

STORGE

a type of love: peacefulness and slowness. lacks passion and excitement, share common interests but rarely disclose any feelings about relationship.

MANIA

a type of loveelation and depression. romantic love. extreme feelings full of excitement and intensity but reaches a peak and quickly fades away

PRAGMA

a type of love: deed, task, work,,. extremely logical and practical. want long term relationship with an individual who shares their goals in life

AGAPE

compassion and sleflessness: gives willingly and expects nothing in return.

initiating stage

stage of relationship one in which you make contact with a person. greeting, asking name etc

exploratory stage

seeking superficial information in a relationship. "do you watch mad men?" "how many brothers and sisters do you have?" etc

intensification stage

stage of relationship in which partners become increasingly intimate and move their communication toward more person questions. pet names form "honey darling" "we" no longer "me.

Stable stage

stage of relationship:: no longer volatile or temporary. have a great deal of knowledge about each other/ integrating and bonding

declining stage

Stage of relationship where relationship falls apart. due to uncertainty events, interference, or unmet expectations.

social penetration theory

theory indicating that the depth and breadth of self-disclosure help us learn about a person we're getting to know. example: peeling an onion

dialectical tensions

contradictory feelings that tug at us in every relationship. , conflicts that arise when two opposing or incompatible forces exist simultaneously

social exchange theory

The idea that people's feelings about a relationship depend on their perceptions of the rewards and costs of the relationship, the kind of relationship they deserve, and their chances for having a better relationship with someone else. rewards and costs. he may be cheating on you (cost) but he's still buying you diamonds. (benefit)

uncertainty reduction theory

theory suggesting that people find uncertainty to be unpleasant, so they are motivated to reduce their uncertainty by getting to know others

productive conflict

conflict that is managed effectively. making plans for the weekend might create conflict but if it is successful it is good.

unproductive conflict

conflict that is managed poorly and has a negative impact on individuals.

benefits of productive conflict

fosters healthy debate: exchanging ideas, evulate the merits of anothers claim, refine each other's thinking about certain situation.

leads to better decision making: conflicting on how to solve a problem or reach a goal and having a successful outcome

...

spurs relationship growth: differences of opinion and clashing goals in a relationship can result in conflict and make it interesting

...

Inaccurate Perception

a conflict trigger: if your bf takes you out to baseball games all the time and never to the ballet and you think he does it on purpose yet you never told him you didn't like baseball, he would have a different view on the situation than you.

unbalanced cost and rewards

a conflict trigger: if you do all the work at the house and your spouse always sits on the couch never rewarding you for the work you do.

provocation

conflict trigger that arises about natural differences between individuals goals or perception. this is the intentional instigation of conflict.

uncertain climate

a communication climate where one person involved in the conflict is unclear, vague, tentative and awkard about goals and expectations

defensive climate

a communication climate in which people feel threatened. mistrust suspicion and apprehension. walking dead.

supportive climate

ideal communication climate, communicators are opeen with ideas feelings and together construct a reality that induces productive resolution.

escapist strategy

a strategy for managing conflict. when people try to avoid conflict entirely.

challenging strategy

strategy for managing conflict. assertiveness. if leslie decides that she wants pie more than she wants to avoid fighting with kathy she might DEMAND the entire piece for herself.

cooperative strategy

strategy for managing conflict. if leslie tries to propose a compromise offering to split the last piece with kathy

focus on issues

don't bring up past issues and focus on issue at hand a strategy for managing conflcit

debate and argue

a strategy for managing conflict in which you probe or ask questions to get a better understanding. don't play role of devil's advocate and point out their flaws and mistakes

consider options and alternatives

offering or negotiating as a strategy for managing conflict

reassure your partner

a straightforward explanation of your good intentions might be a strategy for managing conflict.

compromise

an outcome of conflict where both sides arrive at an agreement where one partner offers something of equal value in return for he or she something wants

win-win

a conflict outcome: when both participants in a conflict and arrive at a solution that has been resolved in a win win manner

lose-lose

a conflict outcome where the conflict is resolved without either side getting what they want.

separation

a conflict outcome: where one removes themself from the situation or relationship.

allocation of power

a conflict outcome:when the couple decides which personal will have the power to make the decision in the relationship,.

random selection

flipping a coin. a method of compromise

nonverbal communication

the process of intentionally or unintentionally signaling meaning through behavior other than words

channel discrepancy

occurs when one set of a person's behaviors say one thing and another set of his or her behavior says something different

repeating

your friend asks you how you're doing and you say "OK" while holding up your hand in the gesture Americans understand to be the OK sign

regulating

nonverbal behaviors that coordinate verbal interaction by helping us to navigate the back-and-forth of communication in a constructive and appropriate manner

kinesics

the way our body movements and gestures send messages

emblem

during a church service you silently hold one finger up to your mouth to communicate non-verbally to your little brother that he must be quite

adaptor

twisting the ring on your right hand and your shaking leg while delivering a presentation

oculesics

the use of the eyes in communication settings

para-language

elements like pitch, volume, rate and other vocal qualities

back-channel cues

vocalizations like "uh huh" and "ummm" that signal you want to speak while another person is talking

haptics

the nonverbal communication used when comforting your niece wakes up crying out for her mom and dad

noncontact culture

members prefer to avoid touch and are less touch-sensitive

public-private

public displays of affection are sometimes upsetting to others because of a difference in various communicators' perceptions of the...

FALSE

T/F sign language is an example of nonverbal communication

FALSE

T/F because nonverbal communication is more natural and spontaneous than verbal communication is, it is more easily understood.

FALSE

T/F when a person's nonverbal behavior contradicts his or her berbal communication, we tend to believe the verbal message because it is more intentional.

TRUE

T/F when your little sister brings home the MVP trophy from her softball tournament, you say, "Good Job!" while simultaneously giving her a thumbs up sign. We would say that your nonverbal behavior was repeating your verbal message

FALSE

T/F immediacy refers to how quickly or slowly a communicator responds with feedback

TRUE

T/F immediacy cues such as smiling, nodding in agreement and pausing to allow others to speak can foster a closer working relationship between people

FALSE

T/F research in nonverbal communication has concluded that it is, indeed, possible to accurately determine if another person is lying just by monitoring their nonverbal behavior

FALSE

T/F nonverbal communication differs from verbal communication because nonverbal symbols are not part of a code that needs to be interpreted by the receiver

TRUE

T/F affect displays are usually unintentional actions that show a person's emotion

FALSE

T/F Irenaus Eibl-Ebesfeldt is credited with discovering that all facial expressions appear to be innate and universal across all cultures

TRUE

T/F masking refers to the intentional concealment of a person's true emotion by displaying a facial expression that is more appropriate in a given interaction

TRUE

T/F research indicates that infants tend to smile more when they receive direct eye gaze from another person than they do when the other's eyes are averted

TRUE

T/F vocal elements like pitch, rate and volume are elements of nonverbal communication

FALSE

T/F Edward Hall discovered that the most comfortable space for communication within professional contexts, such as business meetings, is the public zone

TRUE

T/F personal space requirements change according to the situational, relational, and cultural context of the communication

FALSE

T/F a polite handshake between colleagues would be defined as functional-professional touch

TRUE

T/F the use of touch can send powerful messages of caring and comfort, as well as control, and can serve a regulating purpose in our interactions

TRUE

T/F how people perceive the use of time and how they structure time in their relationships is an element of nonverbal communication

FALSE

T/F making direct eye contact with another person is considered to be a sign of interest and respect throughout the world

TRUE

T/F women tend to smile more and show greater sensitivity to others' nonverbal behavior than men do

TRUE

T/F the location or environment, the event, and the level of touch are all indicators that might help us determine the informal-formal dimension of the situational context

Perception

a cognitive process through which we interpret our experiences and come to our own unique understandings

communication processing

the means by which you gather, organize, and evaluate the information you receive

schema

when people sometimes feel uncertain in new situations where they don't know what to expect, uncertainty develops because they don't have this

mindlessness

reduced cognitive activity, inaccurate recall and uncritical evaluation are all signs that this state is challenging's one perception

undue influence

Brianna is planning a vacation and even though she really wants to go someplace quiet and relaxing, she has settled on a trip to Miami because her older sister told her she should go someplace with a great night life. This challenges her perception.

interaction appearance theory

a theory that helps explain how people change their attributions of someone's physical appearance as they communicate with them more

Improve perception

verify perceptions, be thoughtful when seeking explanations, and look beyond first impressions

cultural myopia

failing to consider other cultural perspectives because of a belief that one's own culture is appropriate and relevant in all situations and to all people

stereotyping

fitting our perceptions of individuals into our existing schemas without adjusting the scheema adequately

Prejudice

a barrier to intercultural communication competence is considered to be the most severe because it involves deep-seated feelings of unkindness and ill will toward particular groups

self-concept

your awareness and understanding of who you are, as interpretted and influenced by your thoughts, actions, abilities, values, goals and ideals

direct evidence

Your roommate tells you that "you have a really great sense of style; you make any outfit look great." You may choose to incorporate into your self-concept is an example of

social comparison theory

a tendency to internalize our admiration for film and TV stars, models, famous athletes, and political figures by comparing what we like about them to our own self-concept

self-esteem

the way a person feels about himself or herself

self-efficacy

Jim chooses to invite two people he met in his English class over to watch a movie instead of going to a larger party with his fraternity brothers. He says, "I feel like I'm better one-on-one than I am in big groups." This decision is based on...

self-fulfilling prophecy

Deanna puts off choosing and researching her topic, and doesn't have adequate time to prepare and practice for her presentation. Ultimately, she earns a failing grade on her speech, and walks away with her perception confirmed: she's not a good speaker. This is an example of...

self-actualization

when you feel as though you have negotiated a communication situation as well as you possibly could

person who is a high self-monitor

Joe watches other people's nonverbal behavior carefully for cues to what topics they find interesting and what personality traits they consider desirable, and he modifies his behavior in order to create a positive impression on them. Joe is a...

self-disclosure

the act of voluntarily revealing information that is not easily known about ourselves to others

TRUE

we are presented with so much detailed information that it would be difficult to make sense of it all if we didn't schema to organize our perceptions

FALSE

undue influence is not a concern for teens who question their parents' authority

TRUE

attributing the success of rival team to the referees making bad calls during the game may be an example of the fundamental attribution error influencing our perception

TRUE

when Michaela is not asked to interview for the part-time job she wants at her favorite store, she says, "I guess it's all about who you know and not what you know." Michaela's perception may be challenged by the fundamental attribution error

TRUE

factors such as age and race have a strong influence on our perception

FALSE

communication scholars believe that if we all embrace cultural myopia, we will understand one another better

FALSE

Men don't like to show their emotions" is an example of a stereotype

TRUE

negative stereotypes about a group often lead to prejudice against that group

TRUE

communication researchers believe that social interaction is a key aspect in developing one's self-concept

TRUE

social comparison theory helps to explain how media images may contribute to body image problems and eating disorders

TRUE

self-esteem may be positive with regard to one attribute and negative when one considers a different attribute

TRUE

a student's choice of a major would probably be related to his or her feelings of self-efficacy

TRUE

a self-fulfilling prophecy can set up for success in a particular situation

FALSE

after a disagreement with his roommate over the cleanliness of their apartment, Dennis feels frustrated because he agreed to a solution he didn't find satisfying, and decides that he needs to revisit the discussion and be more assertive about his needs. Dennis' evaluation of himself reflects self-denigration

FALSE

telling your new coworker that you prefer the color blue to red would count as self disclosure

TRUE

it would not be considered self-disclosure if we were coerced or forced into sharing a piece of information about ourselves

FALSE

communicators who have a low level of sensitivity to feedback are likely to incorporate others' feedback into their self-concept and modify their behavior based on that feedback

FALSE

the ability to use technology and mediated communication to manage one's identity is a new phenomenon that communication researchers have only begun to research

Communication

The process by which individuals use symbols and behaviors to exchange information

Functional perspective

examines how communications behaviors work (or don't work) to accomplish our goals in personal, group, organizational, or public situations

Interdependence

What we do affects others, and what they do affects us

Why communicate?

to express affiliation, to achieve goals and to influence others

Affiliation

While on a first date, you notice your date leaning in toward you, meeting your gaze, smiling when you make eye contact, and laughing at your jokes- you infer from your date's behavior that he or she likes you.

Control

the ability of one person, group or organization to influence others, and the manner in which their relationships are conducted

symbol

The word "dog" is a _____, which arbitrarily refers to the canine companion that sleeps at the foot of your bed

Ethics

the study of morals, specifically the moral choices individuals make in their relationships with others

decoding

the process of receiving a message by interpreting and assigning meaning to it

culture

the shared beliefs, values and practices of a group of people

examples of co-cultures

the Amish, African Americans, Catholics and Goths

transactional

communication involves two or more people acting in both sender and receiver roles, and the message is dependent on and influenced by those of their partner

appropriate communication

meets the demands of the situation, as well as the expectations of one's communication partner and any other people present

Linear model

model of communication where the sender originates a message, and sends it through a channel to a receiver, without any kind of feedback taken into consideration

feedback

the receiver's responses in the interaction model of communication

competent communication

model of communication that presents a transactional perspective, in which individuals simultaneously send and receive messages within a relational context, a situational context and a cultural context

Cognitions

thoughts a communicator has about himself or herself and others

TRUE

human beings are born with the capacity to communicate

TRUE

we sometimes express emotions to help fulfill our practical needs

FALSE

while communication is helpful, we do not need it to be able to communicate to get things we want and need in life

TRUE

communication offers us multiple ways to accomplish a goal

TRUE

the more control one person has in a communication relationship, the less the other person has

TRUE

in healthy relationships, there is usually equally shared control- both parties have about even levels of control over one another and the communication

FALSE

humans are able to communicate without the use of symbols

TRUE

the meanings of symbols are arbitrary and are negotiated between people

FALSE

codes lose their value once they are known broadly by a large number of people

FALSE

individuals are only able to identify with one co-culture at a time, making this aspect of their cultural identity less meaningful than others

FALSE

the discipline of communication is only concerned with communication that is intentional

FALSE

transactional communication involves a sender and a receiver sending independent messages to one another

FALSE

competent communicators are more concerned with the outcome of their communication than they are with the process of their communication

TRUE

an individual's ethics are influenced by his or her personal morals and values as well as by broader cultural notions of what is right or wrong morally

TRUE

communication behavior can be effective without being appropriate

TRUE

the appropriateness of a communication act is largely determined by cultural norms and rules about what is acceptable or unacceptable

FALSE

while appropriateness is subjective, and may change from one situation to another, competent communication focuses on using the skills that are effective in all situations

FALSE

having strong communication skills is a requirement to develop mutually satisfying relationships

TRUE

the linear model of communication could be used to describe the way an artist uses her recorded music to communicate with her fans

FALSE

the interaction model of communication is the most complex and accurate model of communication put forth because it is the only model to acknowledge that communicators simultaneously send and receive messages

TRUE

a communicator's perception of himself or herself can have a profound impact on the way he or she communicates

TRUE

most people perceive their cognitions, thoughts and feelings to be innate, buy they are actually shaped by the culture in which they live

Avoidance

When people have a high value of neutrality and low value of assertiveness skills and a high value in conflict.

Accommodation

High value for cooperating, great concern for others, low value for compromise

Competition

High value for being powerful, low value for compromise

Collaboration

Best option. Working against a problem, not against other people. Knows their opinion isn't more important than others.

Compromise

Finding acceptable solutions . Middle of the road value for assertiveness and avoidance.

Type X Leader

Avoid risk taking, don't delegate, emphasize group accomplishments

Type Y Leader

Welcome risk taking, delegate responsibility, emphasizes individual accomplishments

Lassiez-Faire Leader

Diminish leadership function, promote group interdependence, assume group commitment. Only works with highly skilled workers

Democratic Leader

Delegate authority, avoid dominating the group, provide direction, promote group independence.

Character

Sum of positive ethical values that you have

Trait Theory (Thomas Carlisle and Frances Galton)

Leaders share certain traits and no one trait dominates.

Situation Theory

Situations produce leaders: time, places, circumstances, events.

Functional Theory (Josef McGrath)

Leadership is sporadic. Performing tasks is leadership. Leadership and membership rotates.

Transformational Leadership

Leadership transforms a group and enables visions of the future. Inspires achievement

First step in group problem solving meetings

Defining the problem. Pose the problem as a question and make sure everybody knows the information.

Second step in group problem solving meetings

Research and analyze the problem

Third step in group problem solving meetings

Establish criteria. Mandatory and Desirable criteria.

Fourth step in group problem solving meetings

List Alternatives. Leader will write down ideas

Fifth step in group problem solving meetings

Evaluate each alternative. Compromise, or go with a vote.

Sixth step in group problem solving meetings

Select the best alternative.

Information Gathering Interview

Interview used to gather information, such as interviewing a potential suspect in a crime.

Persuasive Interview

Questions aimed a securing support for or against a potential candidate.

Problem-Solving Interview

Attempts to persuade participants to deal with problems or tensions.

Performance Appraisal Interview

Reviewing your accomplishments and making goals for the future.

Open Question

Gives the interviewee great freedom in answering this type of question

Closed Question

Less freedom to interviewee to answer this type of question by limiting answers to few choices

Bipolar Question

A question with two answers.

Primary Question

A question that introduces a new topic

Secondary Question

A question that clarifies or elaborates on a topic

Directed Question

Suggests or implies an answer

Leading Question

Implies the answer to a subtle question

Loaded Question

Bold, directed question that is biased

Neutral Question

Questions that provide no hint of the expected response

Funnel Sequence

When an interviewer starts with a broad open ended question then gradually asks more closed questions

Inverse Funnel Sequence

When an interviewer starts with more closed questions then gradually asks more open questions

Networking

A process of using interconnected groups or associations to make connections to people you do not know

Conflict

Interaction between two or more people who have contradictory goals or scarce resources

Conflict Management

The way we engage in conflict and address disagreements

Unproductive Conflict

Conflict that is managed poorly and has a negative impact on the individuals and relationships involved.

Productive Conflict

Conflict that is managed effectively

Provocation

the intentional instigation of conflict

Taking Conflict Personally (TCP)

When we feel so threatened by conflict, we interpret disagreement as a personal attack

Communication Climate

General atmosphere surrounding how we feel about conflict (Defensive, Uncertain, Supportive)

Flaming

Posting online messages that are hostile to one person

Trolling

Posting false information on a public message board

Cyberbullying

Abusive attacks on individual targets

Conflict Styles

sets of goals and strategies we use to resolve conflict

Escapist Styles

Preventing or avoiding direct conflict all together

Avoiding

An escapist style where you do not express your own needs and goals

Obliging

An escapist style where you give in to what somebody else wants

Verbal Aggressiveness

Attacking opposing person's self concept and belittling their needs

Indirect Fighting

Passive style of aggression

Cooperative Strategy

Solution to conflict that benefits both people

Metacommunication

Communicating with each other about how we communication

Interpersonal Relationships

the interconnections between two individuals are influenced by intercommunication

Interpersonal communication

The exchange of verbal and nonverbal messages between people who share meaning and accomplish social goals

Relational Network

Web of relationships

Social Information Processing Theory

Virtual relationships develop much like face to face relationships but process takes longer to form intimate connection

Hyperpersonal Communication

Online relationships have potential to develop even more personal and intimate relationships than face to face ones

Proximity

Relationship formation requires physical or virtual proximity

Inclusion

A need to share our lives with others

Social exchange theory

Explains how we balance the advantages and disadvantages in our relationships

Primary Groups

long lasting groups that form around the relationships that mean the most to their members

Support Groups

a set of individuals who come together to address personal problems while benefitting from a group who has similar issues (AA meetings)

Social Group

A group which allows opportunities to form relationships

Problem-Solving Group

A group with a specific mission to solve a problem

Study Groups

Formed to help prepare students for exams

Team

A group that works together to carry out a project or to compete against other teams.

Self-directed Work Team (SDWT)

A group of skilled workers who take responsibility for themselves for producing high quality finished work

Group Forming Stage

Group members try to figure out who will be in charge and what the group's goals will be

Group Storming Stage

Group begins experiencing conflict over issues

Group Norming Stage

Group members move beyond their conflicts and norms emerge amongst group members

Group Performing Stage

Members combine their skills and knowledge to work towards the groups goals

Group Adjourning Stage

Group members reflect on their accomplishments and failures and decide whether the group will dissemble or take on another project

Punctuated Equilibrium

Groups experience a period of inertia or inactivity until they become aware or time, pressure, and looming deadlines

Countercoalitions

One subgroup positions itself against another on an issue, can leave anyone who isn't affiliated with a subgroup in a very awkward position

Social Ostracism

The exclusion of a particular group member

Social Loafing

The failure of a group member to put in work due to the feeling of anonymity that comes with being in a group

Chain Network

Information is passed from one group member to the next in a sequential pattern

All Channel Network

All members interact with each other equally

Wheel Network

One individual acts as a touchstone for all other in the group

Task Roles

A task that needs to occur for the group to meet it's goals

Antigroup Roles

Serve group individual's needs at the expense of the group's needs

Role Conflict

Arises in a group whenever expectations for a members behavior are incompatible

Cohesion

The degree in which the group members bond, like each other, and consider themselves to be one entity

Communication Apprehension

People who are fearful/nervous about speaking up in groups

Legitimate Power

Comes from individuals role or title

Coercive Power

Stems from a person's ability to threaten or harm others

Reward Power

Derives from an individuals capacity to provide rewards

Expert Power

Comes from the information or knowledge that a leader possesses

Referent Power

Stems from the admiration, respect, or affection that followers have for a leader

Directive Leader

Focuses on group tasks and controls group communication by conveying specific instructions

Supportive Leader

Attends to the group members emotional and relational needs

Participative Leader

View group members as equals, welcomes their opinions, summarizes points, and identifies problems

Achievement- Oriented Leader

Sets challenging goals and communicates high expectations and standards to members

Charismatic Leaders

Vibrant, likeable communicators who generate a positive image among their followers

Visionary Leaders

Leaders who can picture a new or different reality from what currently exists

Transformative Leaders

See change, adaptation, and growth as the means for groups and organizations to survive

Bullying Tactics

Unethical tactic that leaders use. Harsh criticism, name calling, gossip, and slander

Machiavellianism

Tactic advises leaders to use deceit, flatter and exploitative measures to strategically achieve their goals

Cognitive Forces

Consists of group members thoughts, beliefs, and emotions

Nonbinding Straw Poll

An informal vote on a group decision

Proposition of Fact

A claim of what is or what is not

Proposition of Value

Speaker makes claim about what goal, value or course of action should be pursued.

Proposition of Policy

Speaker makes claim about what goal, policy, or course of action should be taken

Social Judgement Theory

Your ability to successful persuade your audience depends on the audience's current attitudes or disposition toward your topic

Anchor Position

Your audience's position on the topic at the outset of the speech

Latitudes

Ranges of acceptable and unacceptable viewpoints

Receptive Audience

An audience that already leans toward your viewpoints and your message

Latitude of Acceptance

Range of positions that your audience accepts

Neutral Audience

Falls between a receptive and a hostile audience. Members nor support or oppose you

Latitude of Non commitment

Range of positions your audience is not sure about

Hostile Audience

An audience that opposes your message

Latitude of Rejection

Range of positions that your audience will not agree with

Stages of Change Model

Model which helps persuade your audience. Measures audience's readiness to modify their behavior

Stage 1 of Change Model

Pre contemplation- an individual is not ready to change their behavior in this stage

Stage 2 of Change Model

Contemplation- individuals begin to recognize the consequences of their behavior

Stage 3 of Change Model

Preparation- Individuals plan and prepare for the change that they're about to make

Stage 4 of Change Model

Action- an individual has made a change in their life

Stage 5 of Change Model

Maintenance- Behavior change is fully integrated into an individual's life

Elaboration Likelihood Model

Listeners process information on two routes, depending on how important the message is to them. (Central and Peripheral Processing)

Central Processing (Elaboration Likelihood Method)

An audience member thinks critically about a speakers message and seriously considers the strength of the argument being presented

Peripheral Processing (Elaboration Likelihood Method)

Giving little thought to the actual method and focusing on superficial aspects like the speakers looks or length of speech

Ethos

The speaker's credibility

Logos

Persuasive appeals directed at the audience's reasoning at a topic

Reasoning

Line of thought we use to make judgements based on facts

Inductive Reasoning

Occurs when you draw general conclusions based on specific evidence. Bottom up logic.

Deductive Reasoning

Occurs when you find specific evidence and apply it to specific reasoning. Top down logic.

Syllogism

A three line deductive argument that draw a specific conclusion from two general premises.

Pathos

Persuasion by appealing to listener's emotions

Logical Fallacies

Invalid, deceptive forms of reasoning

Bandwagon Fallacy

Accepting a statement as true because it is popular

Reduction to the absurd

Extending the argument to the level of absurdity

Red Herring Fallacy

When a speaker relies on irrelevant information, diverting the direction of the argument

Hominem Fallacy

An attack on the person instead of the person's arguments

Hasty Generalization

A reasoning flaw in which a speaker makes a broad generalization based on isolated examples

Begging the Question

Presents arguments that no one can verify because they're not accompanied by valid evidence

Either-or Fallacy

Presenting only two alternatives on a subject and failing to acknowledge other alternatives

Appeal to Tradition

An argument that uses tradition as proof

Slippery Slope Fallacy

When a speaker attests that some event must clearly occur as the result of another event without showing any proof

Naturalistic Fallacy

It is an appeal to nature saint that is natural is right or good and anything unnatural is bad (vaccines, processed food)

Refutational Organizational Pattern

Speakers begin by presenting main points that are opposed to their own position and then follow them with main points that support their own position

Comparative Advantage Pattern

Show that your viewpoint is better than other viewpoints on the topic

Interpersonal Relationships

The interconnections and interdependence between communicators

Interpersonal Communication

The exchange of verbal and nonverbal messages between people who build relationships, share meanings, and accomplish social goals

Relational Network

Web of relationships that connects individuals to one another

Family

A small social group bound by ties of blood, civil contract, and a commitment to care for and be responsible for one another, often in a shared household

Friendship

A close and caring relationship between two people that is perceived as mutually satisfying and beneficial

Social Relationships

Relationships that are functional within a specific context but are less intimate than friendship

Love

A deep affection for and attachment to another person involving emotional ties, with varying degrees of passion, commitment, and intimacy

Intimacy

Closeness and understanding of a relational partner

Social Information Processing Theory

Argues that communicators use unique language and stylistic cues in their online messages to develop relationships that are just as close as those that develop face to face, but often take more time to become intimate

Hyperpersonal Communication

Communication that is even more personal and intimate than face to face interactions (between online communicators)

Proximity

Nearness

Inclusion

To involve others in our lives and to be involved in the lives of others

Social Exchange Theory

Explains process of balancing the advantages and disadvantages of a relationship

Rewards

The elements of a relationship that you feel good about; things about the person or your relationship that benefit you in some way

Costs

The things that upset or annoy you, cause stress, or damage your own self-image or lifestyle

Uncertainty Reduction Theory

Explains that when two people meet, their main focus is on decreasing the uncertainty about each other

Passive Uncertainty Reduction Strategy

Involve observing others in communication situations without actually interacting with them

Active Uncertainty Reduction Strategy

Obtaining information about a person more directly by seeking information from a third party

Interactive Uncertainty Reduction Strategy

Speaking directly with that person rather than observing or asking other for information

Relational Dialectics Theory

Holds that dialectal tensions are contradictory feelings that tug at us in every relationship, whether a newly formed friendship or a committed romantic partnership.

Social Penetration Theory

Explains how partners move from superficial levels to greater intimacy

Communication Privacy Management Theory

Helps explain how people perceive the information they hold about themselves and whether they will disclose or protect it

Boundary Turbulence

Threat to your privacy boundaries

Strategic Topic Avoidance

To maneuver the conversation away from potentially embarrassing, vulnerable, or otherwise undesirable topics

Turning Points

Positive or negative events or changes that stand out in peoples mind as important or defining their relationships

Initiating Stage of a Relationship

You make contact with another person

Exploratory Stage of a Relationship

You are seeking relatively superficial information from your partner

Intensification Stage of a Relationship

Occurs when relational partners become increasingly intimate and move their communication toward more personal self-disclosure

Stable Stage of a Relationship

Relationship is no longer volatile or temporary

Integrating

Becoming one

Bonding

Takes place when two partners share formal, public messages with the world that their relationship is important and cherished

Declining Stage of a Relationship

When the relationship begins to come apart

Uncertainty Events

Events or behavioral patterns that cause uncertainty in a relationship

Termination Stage of a Relationship

End of a relationship

Reconciliation

A repair strategy for rekindling an extinguished relationship

Persuasion

The process of influencing others' attitudes, beliefs, and behaviors on a given topic

Persuasive Speaking

Speech that is intended to influence attitudes, beliefs, and behavior of your audience

Attitudes

Our general evaluations of people, ideas, objects, or events

Beliefs

The ways in which people perceive reality

Behavior

The manner in which we act or function

Proposition of Fact

A claim of what is or what is not

Proposition of Value

Making claims about somethings worth

Proposition of Policy

Speaker makes claims about what goal, policy, or course of action should be pursued

Social Judgment Theory

Your ability to successfully persuade your audience depends on the audiences current attitudes or disposition toward your topic, as well as how strongly they feel about their current position

Anchor Position

audiences position on the topic at the outset of the speech

Hierarchy of Needs

Theory proposes that the most basic needs must be met before an individual can become concerned with needs farther up the hierarchy (1. Survival/Physiological Needs, Safety Needs, Belongingness/Social Needs, Esteem/Ego-Status Needs, Self-Actualizing Needs)

Elaboration Likelihood Model

Based on the belief that listeners process persuasive messages by one of two routes depending on how important-how relevant-the message is to them (central processing and peripheral processing)

Logical Fallacies

Invalid or deceptive forms of reasoning

Bandwagon Fallacy

Accepting a statement as true because it is popular

Reduction to the Absurd

Pushing an argument beyond its logical limits in this manner can cause it to unravel

Red Herring Fallacy

Relying on irrelevant information for his or her argument, thereby diverting the direction of the argument

Ad hominem fallacy

An attack on the person instead of on the person's arguments

Hasty Generalization

Speaker makes broad generalization based on isolated examples or insufficient evidence

Begging the Question

Presents arguments that no one can verify because they are not accompanied by valid evidence

Either-or fallacy

Presenting only two alternatives on a subject and failing to acknowledge other alternatives

Appeal to Tradition

an argument that uses tradition as proof

Slippery Slope Fallacy

Employed when a speaker attest that some event must clearly occur as a result of another event without showing any proof that the second event is caused by the first

Naturalistic Fallacy

An appeal to nature saying that what is natural is right or good and that anything unnatural us wrong or bad

Group

When there are more than two people who share some kind of relationship, communicate in an interdependent fashion, and collaborate toward some shared purpose

Primary Group

Long lasting groups that form around the relationships that mean the most to their members

Team

A group that works together to carry out a project or to compete against other teams

Self Directed Work Team

A group of skilled workers who take responsibility themselves for producing high-quality finished work

Tuckman's Model of Group Development

States that as groups develop, they progress through five stages: forming, storming, norming, performing, and adjourning

Punctuated Equilibrium

Means that groups experience a period of inertia or inactivity until they become aware or time, pressure, and looming deadlines, which compel group members to take action

Social ostracism

The exclusion of a particular group member

Networks

Patterns of interaction governing who speaks with whom in a group and about what

Chain Network

Information passed from one member to the next in a sequential pattern

All-Channel Network

All members interact with each other equally

Wheel Network

One individual acts as a touchstone for all the others in the group; all group member share their information with that one individual, who then shares the information with the rest of the group

Task Roles

Concerned with the accomplishments of the groups goals-specifically, the activities that need to be carried out for the group to achieve its goals (information giver, information seeker, elaborator, initiator, administrator)

Social Roles

Roles that manage how people in the group are feeling and getting along with each other (harmonizer, gatekeeper, sensor)

Antigroup Roles

Serve individual members' priorities at the expense of group needs (blocker, avoider, recognition seeker, distractor)

Role Conflict

Arises in a group whenever expectations for a member's behavior are incompatible

Assertiveness

Refers to the use of communication messages that demonstrate confidence, dominance, and forcefulness to achieve personal goals

Argumentativeness

A particular form of assertiveness, in which a person tends to express positions on controversial issues and verbally attack the positions that other people take

Conflict

An interaction between two or more interdependent people who perceive that they have contradictory goals or scarce resources

Conflict Management

The way that we engage in conflict and address disagreements with out relational partners

Unproductive Conflict

Conflict that is managed poorly and has a negative impact on the individuals and relationships involved

Productive Conflict

Conflict that is managed effectively

Provocation

The intentional instigation of conflict

Communication Climate

The general "atmosphere" surrounding how we feel about our communication in different relationships

Uncertain Climates

Climates in which at least one of the people involved is unclear, vague, tentative, and awkward about the goals, expectations, and potential outcomes of the conflict situation

Defensive Climates

Those in which the people involved feel threatened

Supportive Climates

Involve communicators who are open to one another's ideas and feelings

Flaming

Posting of online messages that are deliberately hostile or insulting toward a particular individual

Trolling

The position of provocative, offensive, and often false messages to forums or discussion boards in order to elicit from the participants a negative general reaction

Cyberbullying

Abusive attacks on individual targets conducted through electronic channels

Conflict Styles

Sets of goals and strategies that we use to manage conflicts

Escapist Styles

Try to prevent or avoid direct conflict altogether or, if they have to engage in it, get it over with as quickly as possible

Avoiding

Not expressing your own needs and goals, even if you have a grievance

Competitive Styles

Promote the objectives of the individual who uses them rather than the desires of the other person or the relationship

Direct fighting

engaging openly in competition (Win or Lose battles)

Verbal Aggressiveness

Attacking the opposing person's self-concept and belittling the other person's needs

Indirect Fighting

Passive style of aggression

Cooperative Strategies

Conflict styles that aim to benefit the relationship, to serve mutual rather than individual goals, and to produce solutions that benefit both parties

Compromising

Goal is to find the "middle ground" between two positions

Collaborating

Problem solvers who creatively work toward finding ways to meet the goals of both parties

Metacommunication

Communication with each other about how we communicate

Interpersonal Communication

93% is NonVerbal human interpersonal communication; 7% words/language.

Nonverbal Communication

The process of internationally or unintentionally signaling meaning through behavior other than words.

Nuance

the tiny incremental elements you can't put your finger on.

Spontaneous

Emotions

Masking

Not showing your emotions

Deception

Not telling the whole truth.

Kinesics

Gestures and body movements that send nonverbal messages.

Oculesics

Study of the eyes

Haptic

The use of touch to send messages.

Public Speaking

A powerful form of communication that includes a speaker who has a reason for speaking, an audience that gives the speaker attention, and a message that is meant to accomplish a specific purpose.

Persuade Speeches

Speech that is intend to influence the attitudes, beliefs, and behaviors of an audience.

Brainstorming

Getting the idea of out there and to think as a group.

Emphasis

Making certain words very important; Tone of voice may change; Pauses are important; Pauses can get attention.

Semantics

Meaning of words and sentences.

Narrative

Dialogue; Connecting your points.

Repeating

What term are you going to repeat; You can repeat something 2 to 3 times to indicate where you are going.

Signpost

Key words or phrases within sentences that signify transitions between points; Signposts link one thought to the next.

Ex. "and furthermore

...

Subpoints

provide support for the main points.

Main points

the central claims that support your specific speech purpose and your thesis.

Organization

neat and uses connective words.

credibility

researching work that is not yours.

Thesis Statement

A statement that conveys the central idea about your topic.

Clarification

Asking for repetition.

Proxemics

The way we use and communicate with space.

Physical Appearance

We are judged immediately on our physical appearance.

Voice

Pitch;tone;volume

Projection

carrying power of your voice. This is different than loudness.

Communication

Is the process by which we use symbols, signs,and behaviors to exchange information

Functional Perspective

Examines how communication behaviors work (or don't work) to accomplish goals.

Relationships

Are the interconnections, or interdependence, between two or more people that function to achieve some goal.

Interdependence

Means that what we do affects others, and vice versa.

Affiliation

Or feelings for others

Control

Power over others.

Symbols

Arbitrary constructions related to the people, things, or concepts to which they refer.

Code

A set of symbols, that creates a meaningful message.

Encoding

is the process of producing and sending a message

Decoding

Is the process of receiving a message and making sense of it.

Transactional

Is a communication process where you influence others while they influence you.

Competent Communication

Is more process than outcome focused.

Ethics

Is the study of morals

Behavioral Flexility

Involves knowing and using a number behaviors

Behavioral Flexibility

Involves knowing and using different behaviors acheive appropriate communication.

Communication Skills

Are behaviors that help communication acheve their goals.

Sender

Original the message , carried through a channel perhaps interfered with by a noise - to the receiver.

Interaction model

Expands on the linear model by including feedback between the receiver and the sender.

Competent Communication Model

Is a transactional model incorporating three contexual spheres in which individuals communicate.

Cognitions

Thoughts communicators have about themselves.

Behaviors

Observable communication.

Cognitive Complexity

Enables communicators to think about multiple and subtle nuances in the messages of their partners.

Dyads

groups, organizations, speakers, and audiences and mass and mediated contexts.

Perception

Is the cognitive process that helps us make sense of the world.

Communication Processing

Is how we gather, organize and the information we receive.

Schemas

Are mental structures we use to connect bits of information together.

Interactions Appearance theory

Explains how people change their perception of someone else as they spend more time together.

Mindlessness

is a passive response to information.

Mindfulness

Helps us focus on the task at hand.

Selection Perception

Presents is that it allows bias to influence our thoughts.

Undue Influence

Allows other sources too much say.

Fundamental attribution error

explains our tendency to assume that another person's wrong behavior stems from an internal flaw.

Self-serving bias

Attributes our own failures to external causes.

Cultural Myopia

The failure to see past beyond our own belief and circumstances.

Stereotyping

Generalizing about people.

Prejudice

ill will toward a particular group and a sense of ones's own superiority.

Self-conept

Who we think we are

Self- esteem

Is how we feel about ourselves in a particular situation.

Self-actualization

High performance.

Self-adequacy

Adequate Performance.

Self-denigration

Poor performance.

Self-presentation

Is intentional communication designed to let others know about ourselves.

Self-monitoring

The tendency to watch our environment and others in it for cues as to how to present ourselves

Self-disclosure

Sharing Important information about ourselves.

communication processing

in which we interpret experience and come to unique understandings

stimuli qualification

based on intensity, size, movement, relevance, and our attitude

schemas

mental structures that put together relative bits of information; chunks of info form patterns to make patterns

mindlessness

processing information passively

selective perception

your mind changes what's actually there

undue influence

stereotyping based on appearance

attributions

reason that people make up to determine why a person acts a certain way

internal attribution

attribute an action to the person's personality (ex. Caleb is a jerk)

external attribution

attributing an action to the person's situation (ex. Caleb has a stressful job)

fundamental attribution error

our tendency to overemphasize the internal and underestimate the external causes of behavior in others

self-serving bias

attributing our own successes to internal reasons and our failures to external reasons

cultural myopia

a belief that your own culture is relevant to all cultures and that everyone should follow it.

stereotyping

the act of fitting individuals into an existing schema without knowing the person

prejudice

a deep-seated feeling of unkindness and ill will towards particular groups

self-concept

an awareness and an understanding of who we are based on our thoughts, actions, abilities, values, goals, and ideals; developed by social interaction

social comparison theory

basing ourselves on other people

self-esteem

refers to how we feel about ourselves in a particular situation; based on attitudes of your self-concept

self-efficacy

ability to predict actual success based on your self-concept and self-esteem

self-fulfilling prophecy

changing your actions based on inaccurate self-efficacy

self-actualization

feelings and thoughts you get when you have negotiated a communication situation well; increases self-esteem with each victory

self-adequacy

feelings and thoughts you get when you perform negotiation well or adequately, increases self-improvement or satisfaction with each victory

self-denigration

feelings and thoughts you get when you place undue importance on your weaknesses and shortcomings; leads to no self-improvement

self-presentation

how we let others know about ourselves (ex. with a song, through e-mail, face-to-face, etc.)

self-monitoring

watching the environment to try to find the best way to present ourselves

self-disclosure

revealing yourself to others by sharing information about yourself

communication

using symbols, signs and behaviors to exchange information

functions of communication

expressing communication, achieving goals, influence others

symbolic

communication that is linked to language (code), culture, and pictures

transactional process

the process of sending and receiving information, cannot be reversed

arbritary symbols

has no divine meaning (ex. skull-bone sign means deadly, radioactive area, etc)

code

a set of symbols that are joined to create a meaningful message

culture

the shared beliefs, values, and practices of a group of people

unintentional communicatoin

can occur from bodily reactions like blushing, and leg jerking

channel

the method through which communication occurs (ex. in person, internet forum, etc.)

competent communicator

can communicate effectively and can adapt to the situation at hand

process

measured by the methods the person took to reach their outcome

outcome

the final product of an interchange

linear model

there is a sender and a receiver; noise (visual, audible, etc.) is in between them

interaction model

there is constant feedback between the sender and receiver

competent communication model

simultaneous encoding and decoding occurs between two entities; transaction is ubiquitous but differs with channels

relational context

communication that changes based on the relationship between the sender and the receiver

situational context

a variable that has to do with the situation at hand (where you are, events taking place, etc.)

cultural context

culture is an omnipresent force that encompasses all models