Ch. 10: Emotional and Social Development in Early Childhood

initiative vs. guilt

In erikon's theory, the psycological conflict of early childhood, which is resolved positively through play experiences that foster a healthy sense of initiative through the development of superego, or conscience, that is not overally strict and/or guilt-

I-self

the self as knower and actor, which is separate from the surrounding world, remains the same person over time, has a private inner life not accessible to others, and control its own thoughts and actions

me-self

the self as an object of knowledge and evaluation, consisting of all physical, psychological, and social characteristics that make the self unique

self-concept

the set of attributes, abilities, attitudes, and values that an individual believes defines who he or she is

self-esteem

the judgements individuals make about their own worth and the feelings associated with those judgements

prosocial/altruistic behavior

actions that benefit another person without any expected reward for the self

sympathy

feelings of concern or sorrow for anothers plight

nonsocial activity

unoccupied, onlooker behavior and solitary play

parallel play

a limited form of social participation in which a child plays near other children with similar materials but does not try to influence their behavior

associative play

a form of true social interaction, in which children engage in separate activities but interact by exchanging toys and communicating on one anothers behavior

cooperative play

a type of social interaction in which children orient toward a common goal, such as acting out a make-believe theme or working on a project together

social problem solving

generating and applying strategies that prevent or resolve disagreements leading to outcomes that are both acceptable to others and beneficial to the self

induction

a type of discipline in which an adult helps make the child aware of feelings by pointing out the effects of the child's misbehavior on others

time out

a form of mild punishment in which children are removed from the immediate setting until they are ready to act appropriate

moral imperatives

- standards that reflect peoples rights and welfare

social conventions

customs such as table manners that are determined by consensus within society

matters of personal choice

concerns that do not violate rights and are up to each individual, such as choice of friends or color of clothing

instrumental aggression

aggression aimed at obtaining an object, privilege, or space with no deliberate intent to harm another person

hostile aggression

aggression intended to harm another person

physical aggression

a form of hostile aggression that harms others through physical injury to individuals or their property

verbal aggression

a form of hostile aggression that harms others through threats of physical aggression, name-calling, or hostile teasing

relational aggression

a form of hostile aggression that damages another's peer relationships through social exclusion, malicious gossip, or friendship manipulation

gender typing

any association of objects, activities, roles, or traits with one sex or the other in ways that conform to cultural stereotypes

gender identity

an image of oneself as relatively masculine or feminine in characteristics

androgyny

the gender identity held by individuals who score high on both traditionally feminine personality characteristics

gender constancy

the understanding that sex is biologically based, remaining the same over time even if clothing, hairstyle, and play activities change

gender schema theory

an information-processing approach to gender typing that explains how environmental pressures and childrens cognition work together to shape gender role development

child-rearing styles

combinations of parenting behaviors that occur over a wide range of situations, creating and enduring child-rearing climate

authoritative child-rearing style

a child-rearing style that is high in acceptance and involvement emphasiszes firm control with explanations and includes gradual, appropriate autonomy granting

authoritarian child-rearing style

a child-rearing style that is low in acceptance and involvement, is high in coercive control and restricts rather than grants autonomy

psychological control

parental behaviors that intrude on and manipulate children's verbal expression, individuality, and attachments to parents

permissive child-rearing

a child-rearing style that is high in acceptance but either overindulging or inattentive, low in control, and inappropriately lenient in autonomy granting

uninvolved child-rearing styles

a child rearing style that combines low acceptance and involvement with little control and indifference to autonomy granting.