Interpersonal Communication

mediated interpersonal communication

when the use of telephones, faxes, email, electronic chat rooms media to carry the message

social information-processing theory

explains how people use information they receive from others via email & other electronic media to develop relationships with others.

Interpersonal communication five principles

connencts us to others, irreversible, complicated, governed by rules, involves both content and relationship dimensions

computer mediated communication (cmc)

communication between and amoung people thru computers

content

new information, ideas, or suggested actions that a speaker wishes to share

relationship dimension

the implied aspect of a communication message, which conveys information about emotions, attitudes, power, and control

rule

a followable prescription that indicates what behavior is obligated, preferred, or prohibited in certain communication situations or contexts

symbol

word, sound, or visual image that represents a thought, concept, or object

synchronous interaction

interaction in which participants are actively engaging at the same time

asynchronous interaction

interaction in which participants send and receive messages from each other with delays between reception and response.

computer-supported social network (CSSN)

a virtual community caused by networking among individuals through CMC

communibiological approach

suggests people's communication behavior can be predicted based on personal traits and characteristics that result from their genetic or biological background

social learning theory

suggests we can learn how to adapt and adjust our behavior toward others; is not dependent solely on our genetic or biological makeup

ethics

the beliefs, values, and moral principles by which people determine what is right and wrong

other-oriented communicator

one who considers the thoughts fellings and perspectives of communication partners while maintaining his or her own integrity

egocentric communicator

a person who creates messages without giving much thought to the person who is listening; self focused and self absorbed

self

sum total of who a person is; a person's central inner force

self-concept

a person's subjective description of who he or she is

attitude

predisposition to respond to a person, object, or idea in a favorable of unfavorable way

belief

way in which you structure your understanding of reality; what is true and what is false

value

enduring concept of good and bad, right and wrong

material self

your concept of self as reflected in a total of all the tangible things you own

social self

your concept of self as reflected in your social interactions with others

spiritual self

your concept of self based on your thoughts and introspections about your values, moral standards, and beliefs

looking glass self

concept that suggests you learn who you are based on your interactions with others, who reflect your self back to you

symbolic interaction theory

that people make sense of the world on the basis of their interactions with other people

androgynous role

gender role that includes both masculine and feminine qualities

self reflexiveness

human ability to think about what you are doing while you are doing it

psychology

study of how thinking influences behavior

personality

set of enduring internal predispositions and behavioral characteristics that describe how people react to their environment

communibiological approach

perspective that suggests that genetics and biological influences play a major role in influencing communication behavior

shyness

behavioral tendency not to talk or interact with other people

communication apprehension

fear or anxiety associated with either real or anticipated communication with other people

willingness to communicate

general term for an individual's tendency to be shy or apprehensive about communicating with others

self worth (self esteem)

your evaluation of your worth or value based on your perception of such things as your skills, abilities, talents, and appearance

social comparison

process of comparing yourself to others who are similar to you to measure your worth and value

life position

your feelings of regard for yourself and others, as reflected in your sense of worth and self esteem

face

a person's positive perception of himself or herself in interactions with others

facework

using communication to maintain your own positive self perception to support, reinforce, or challenge someone else's self- perception (other face)

intrapersonal communication

talking to your self

visualization

technique of imagining that you are performing a particular task in a certain way

reframing

process of redefining events and experiences from a different point of view

social decentering

cognitive process in which you take into account another person's thoughts, feelings, values, background, and perspective

specific other perspective

perspective that uses information that one can observe or imagine about another person to predict that person's behavior

generalized other perspective

a perspective that uses observed or imagined information about many others to predict a person's behavior

self fulfulling prophecy

a prediction about your future actions that is likely to come true because you believe it will come true

selective exposure

people tend to place themselves in situations that are consistent with their self concept and self esteem

need for inclusion

interpersonal need to be included and to include others in social activities

need for control

interpersonal need for some degree of domination in our relationships

need for affection

interpersonal need to give and receive love, personal support, warmth, and intimacy

communication style

identifiable or habitual way in which you communicate to others

assertiveness

tendency to make requests, ask for info, and pursue your own rights and best interests

responsiveness

tendency to be sensitive to the needs of others, placing their feelings above yours

self disclosure

purposefully providing information to others that they would not learn if you did not tell them

social penetration model

model of self disclosure and relational development that reflects both depth and breadth of shared information

self awareness

a person's concious understanding of who he or she is

johari window model

model of self disclosure that reflects the movement of information about yourself from blind and unknown quadrants to hidden and open ones

dyadic effect

the reciprocal nature of self disclosure: you disclose to me and i'll disclose to you

self disclosure level 5

cliche communication

self disclosure level 4

facts and biograpghical information

self disclosure level 3

attitudes and personal ideas

self disclosure level 2

personal feelings

self disclosure level 1

peak communication