I. CODEPENDENCY
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What is codependency?
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Key Characteristics
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Codependents are ENABLERSFour ways an enabler works
1.2.3.4.
Codependent Cycle
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Steps to HEAL a codependent
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Rescue Process
describe...
Karpman's Drama Triangle
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II. REFLECTING ON FRIENDSHIPS
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Know and explain six different kinds of friendships
1.2.3.4.5.6.
Name several ways NOT to neglect c-level friends
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C-level friends do what FOUR things?
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III. SAFE PEOPLE
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Three qualities of SAFE people
1.2.3.
Five (of the 9) reasons we need SAFE people
1.2.3.4.5.
Three categories of UNSAFE people
1.2.3.
Four (of the 7) ways people attract UNSAFE people
1.2.3.4.
IV. BRENE BROWN - LISTENING TO SHAME
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What is vulnerability all about?
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What is the difference between shame and guilt?Why is guilt restoring?
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How is shame organized by gender?
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What is the antidote for shame?
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V. SMART LOVE
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Name and describe the seven components of "SMART LOVE
1.2.3.4.5.6.7.
Which is the most important? Why? Give examples
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VI. THE MEANING OF MARRIAGE - TIM KELLER FORUM
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What is the role of service in a marriage?
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Say something about the horizontal and vertical aspects of service.
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Key truths and takeaways of EPHESIANS 5:21+
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VII. BREAKING UP
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Name four fears of initiating a breakup
1.2.3.4.
Three reasons you know it is time to break up
1.2.3.
Three things to know/do if you are the heartbreaker?
1.2.3.
Three things to know/do if you are the brokenhearted?
1.2.3.
VIII. BIOLOGY AND DYNAMICS OF A ROMANTIC ATTRACTION
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Name three biological/hormonal/physical reactions when there is attraction
1.2.3.
How Men and Women Differ
(refer to handout)
Matthew Boggs Video - "How Men Fall in Love
(refer to Moodle)
Matthew Boggs Video - "The Lay of Elasticity
(refer to Moodle)
Anxious-Avoidant Trap in Attachment
How it works? What to do?
IX. THE SEX TALK YOU NEVER HAD
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What does a woman and a man desire in sex? (KEY QUESTIONS)
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Know what authentic and inauthentic sexuality involves
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What is the most important sex organ? Why?
Brain...
Four contrasts from our MODEL OF THE GREAT LOVER: Covenantal vs. ContractualGracing vs. ShamingEmpowering vs. ControllingIntimate vs. Distant
1.2.3.4.
The problem with pornography
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Name two (of the 5) "choices" made with regards to sexual intimacy
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Barbara Johnson and "The Invisible Bond
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Orgasms and "psychasms
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X. THE GOD IMAGE
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God Image Scale - Three categories and the two parts of each
1.a)b)2.a)b)3.a)b)
What is the "Redemptive Model"?
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Parent Bonding Instrument and the GIS
Similarities?
XI. ATTACHMENT(from whole semester)
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Know the four attachment styles and what they look like
1.2.3.4.
Know we seek "security" in relationships... SAFE HAVEN/SECURE BASE
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Completion at an unconscious level; Health is by becoming complete/whole
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Trinity = God in relationship with Himself
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Looking for trouble when look to "remake" your flawed partner
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XII. HOW WE LOVE(online profiles)
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Name and describe your online "How We Love" profile
1. vacillator2. avoider3. pleaser